STOP BULLYING ! R.I.P BULLYING VICTIMS
by Annisa Syawalina on Friday, September 11, 2009 at 1:17am
Nicole pedvein
She couldn't take the pain no more she was bullied for 3 years she committed suicide to get away from the pain.
She left this note:
Dear Mum
I don't want to tell you this, Mum,
I really find it hard.
I wish it wasn't happening,
I wish it wasn't true.
Mum I'm getting bullied,
What is wrong with me?
Is it that they are jealous?
Or do they just hate me?
I cry myself to sleep at night,
I sometimes hurt myself too.
Sometimes I pretend I'm ill,
Just to stop off school.
I really really love you Mum,
But I wish I wasn't born.
I don't want to put you through the pain,
But when you read this I'll be gone.
The figures of teen suicide believed to from bullying so far this year has been released in the UK
and RIP kristina calco and jared high.
i care about us." Dearhazel"
RIP Bullying Victims. keep strong.
“While you are going through the system to fight for your child's rights, your child is the one going into the battlefield …and today could be the day that he or she is fatally wounded.” Brandon's mom, Cathy Swartwood Mitchell |
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The Aftermath
...For several years, I tried to work. I had no focus, no energy and enough anger to do a mass killing of those responsible. Thank God, I had enough maturity, morals and maintained enough sanity, barely, to refrain from seeking revenge. I say “barely” on the sanity thing because I was crazy with grief and anger.
The Aftermath
...For several years, I tried to work. I had no focus, no energy and enough anger to do a mass killing of those responsible. Thank God, I had enough maturity, morals and maintained enough sanity, barely, to refrain from seeking revenge. I say “barely” on the sanity thing because I was crazy with grief and anger.
...So
there I sat, for the first time in my life, in jail. I had a prescription
bottle of pills in my jean jacket. I was an emotional wreck. I emptied
the entire bottle into my hand as I contemplated my situation.
~Cathy
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Fighting The System Jared’s Story - "The scars never go away" Jared Benjamin High - 09/23/85 – 09/29/98
“It’s your child. You must fight for him or her. No one cares
like a parent cares...a parent is motivated by love.”
Jared's mom, Brenda High>>
Looking back – Looking forward (10 Steps to Stop Bullying)
Put yourself into the shoes of a victim of bullying. Every day a child is bullied is an eternity to them. We worry about terrorists coming into our country and doing us harm. A victim of bullying walks into their school each day knowing their terrorist could strike any moment and destroy their wounded spirit again, and again. How long can a child play on the freeway dodging cars before the experience finally becomes too much and they go over the edge? ~Brenda
Jared's Story, Brenda's Story and Jared's Sister's Story was featured on the E! Network, first aired on April 21, 2010 - E! Investigates: Bullying
Girl to Girl Bullying Corinne’s Story - “Just Go Home and Kill Yourself” Corinne Wilson - 09/30/91 – 10/06/04
“Don’t be afraid of the school, the teachers or administrators.
You must remember they work for you, and your children.
If you don’t stand up for your child, who will?”
Corinne's mom, Rochelle Sides> >>
Relational Aggression – Girl to Girl Bullying Examined
...It started slowly with rumors, secrets and exclusion; it progressed to harassment and violence. Like most victims of relational aggression, Corinne blamed herself for her bully’s behavior. She internalized her pain and kept the bullying to herself in an attempt to maintain a relationship with her bullies, as many girls do. As a result, it damaged her self-esteem and caused severe depression, which ultimately led to Corinne taking her life. ~Rochelle
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Matthew Alexander Epling – 2/10/88 – 7/16/02 “Don't be fooled. Bullying doesn't have to be repeated, or take place
over a period of time. Each child is different. Even one traumaticinstance can cripple a young mind into a well of despair.”Matt's mom, Tammy Epling>>
A Personal How-To Guide To Effecting Change
Hazing has a few different components than bullying, but at the core, they are both about “power and control”. One person has power and control, one person does not. Bullying, harassment, and hazing - they are all sick twisted cousins. It is sometimes hard to define when hazing is an assault and when repeated hazing became bullying. In order to make a wider base we wanted to incorporate all of the aspects of bullying, harassment and hazing together into a comprehensive anti bullying plan. ~Tammy & Kevin Epling
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The Pain of Depression - What It Feels Like
A person that takes his/her life by suicide is not thinking of themselves or anyone else. A depressed and suicidal person is not thinking - the brain is not functioning well enough to have any real thoughts. There are only feelings. It's all about emotions. You feel sad, upset, unloved, disparity, hopeless, helpless, alone, gloomy, weighted down and rejection. ~Summer
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“If you think something is wrong, something is probably wrong.
Go with your gut feelings.”>>
Recipe for a Disaster: Bullying to Depression, Depression to Suicide
Take one part shy & sensitive, impressionable, naïve young girl and add a lack of self-esteem. Slowly stir in puberty. Add typical teenage pressures including friends, grades, sports, extracurricular activities and being perpetually on Instant Chat. Add a daily dose of teasing, ridicule and torment by a group of boys and then garnish with what turns out to be a sexually charged and romantic online relationship with a boy from another high school. Add to this a seeming inability for intervention in any way, shape or form. Shake well and then let sit. ~Michelle
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Death
by Computer
Jeffrey’s
Story - "Sixth out of Seven, Number-One Son,
Right-hand Man"
Jeffrey
Scott Johnston - 12/21/89 – 6/29/05
“A
bully doesn’t have to be eye to eye to bully someone. Sometimes he
or she gets into cyberspace, and then there’s no place to hide from their
torment.”
Debbie
Johnston
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